Divorce and Physicians: Navigating the Personal and Financial Realities
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While physicians are less likely to divorce than the general population, about 21% of surgeons and 18% of non-surgeon physicians experience this life-changing event. Divorce can be especially complex for doctors, involving the valuation of medical practices, long work hours that impact custody, and financial settlements tied to high-asset cases. Experts stress the importance of approaching the process like a business transaction, supported by attorneys and advisors who understand physicians’ unique circumstances.
Medical practices often require third-party valuations, which can surprise physicians with their worth and lead to offsetting settlements through other assets like homes or retirement accounts. Custody decisions also consider the physician’s demanding schedule, though doctors often retain authority in medical decision-making for their children.
Beyond the financial and legal details, physicians must prioritize their own well-being. “Do everything in your power to have a life,” says Michael Myers, MD, MSSNY member since 2009. Overwork, isolation, and untreated depression are real risks post-divorce, making self-care and professional support essential.
For physicians moving forward, experts recommend considering prenuptial agreements in second marriages to protect practices, assets, and family inheritances. Ultimately, divorce is not a failure—it can represent an opportunity for renewal, improved mental health, and a stronger focus on what matters most: patients, family, and personal well-being.
A Doctor’s Guide to Divorce (Braveman, Medscape, 9/17).
